VA loan 2 year employment requirement.

Hey guys, i’m very confused right now. I recently got pre-approved for a VA loan about a month ago. found a house, made an offer and accepted and everything. Last minute my loan officer tells me I don’t qualify because my current job (warehouse supervisor) doesn’t reflect my military job (security forces), and i don’t have 2 years at my current job, only about 2 months since i’ve gotten out. Is there any way around this to get approved for a VA loan? I’m so confused because I’ve had family friends get VA loans without either of those requirements. Why would i get pre approved in the first place then? Someone help, thank you!